He Can't Love Me, Like I love Me

Why is it that a man's way of showing affection is different from a woman's? Typically, women display and proudly confess their love for their man through actions and words. Women tend to love a man until she has no more breath. We will tolerate the lies, scandals, and cheating. We will even wash the clothes, cook, clean, and look fly all while doing it. In return, women do not receive the same kind of "love" that we dish out. Steve Harvey feels like a woman should look for the three P's to know if her man loves her the same way.

Profession:

If your man gives you a title when you are around his friends, family, coworkers, He is into you. He would address you as "His woman/lady, Baby Mama, or Wife." To Steve, he wouldn't just address you as your name. But come on is this really true?! I know several guys who say that a girl is his woman, but that doesn't always means that he is true to her. And anyway, what's in a title? You can have a title and still be mistreated. I think that this is a case by case situation. Yes, having a title gives a woman reassurance, however it does not guarantee that she is the only woman in his life. I know a man who have several girlfriends and he addresses each one of them as a girlfriend. Isn't that worse then just being addressed as your name? At least, you know where you stand and you are not being betrayed and lied to.

Provide:

Steve thinks that a man will give you his last dollar if you are his woman. He would not be stingy or hesitate to provide for you. I know that you ladies are rolling your eyes because we live in a Mrs. Independent kind of world. Ummmmmm...We're also in a recession too, but no further comment.

Protect:

Steve thinks that a male will protect you in physical ways as well as mental ways. He will stand up for you when someone harms you, or when you are in a situation that he thinks is best that he handles. Personally, I am a strong woman and I like to fend for myself. However, it feels good to know that someone has your back from time to time.

Side note: It was brought to my attention through a source that Mr. Steve Harvey did indeed Cheat on his EX-Wife. Very Interesting...Now he's trying to break it down about brothers. Seriously?! What do you think? Is this his way of trying to handle his own scandal or redeem himself?!

Anywho, I will continue to read the book and you should too.

He was also on Good Morning America today. Check it out.

Steve on GMA